Give Yourself The Love and Attention You Beg From Others

โ€œ๐‘ฐ ๐’๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–. ๐‘ฐโ€™๐’Ž ๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’† ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐‘ฐ ๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’•๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† ๐’„๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’‡ ๐’š๐’๐’–.โ€ Words you so frequently say to others, but fail to say to yourself.

You sit there in the dark. Forgotten. Neglected. Abandon. Willing showing up for others, but never for yourself. Youโ€™re so out of touch with you that youโ€™re lost. And you expect someone else to find you, to provide for you, to fill what is hollow:

Youโ€™re in search of someone to give you:
๐™ฐ๐š๐š๐šŽ๐š—๐š๐š’๐š˜๐š—.
๐™ป๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ.
๐š‚๐šŽ๐šก.
๐š€๐šž๐šŠ๐š•๐š’๐š๐šข ๐š๐š’๐š–๐šŽ.
๐™ฐ๐š๐š๐š’๐š›๐š–๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š ๐š˜๐š›๐š๐šœ.

You tell them: ๐˜ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ; ๐˜ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ; ๐˜ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ; ๐˜ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถโ€™๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ; ๐˜ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ.

You put the responsibility on others to take care of you, to love you, to supply your needs. And as a result, you become so distant from yourself, so far from seeing your worth, and come to a place that lacks fulfillment.

Your cup will remain empty, until you choose to fill it on your own. Darling, please heed my words: it is your responsibility. To fill those voids, to take initiative, and to give yourself the boundless love placed in your heart. You can and you should give yourself what youโ€™re so desperately craving. The orgasmic sex, the appreciation, the gentle words, the date night, the roses, the nourishment and the nurturing. All of it.

Your love is yours to give yourself. You are your responsibilityโ€”no one elseโ€™s. And when you fill up your own cup, others will only add and love will overflow.

Fill up your cup today, boo. Today and every day.

xx

Devi

Your Insecurities are Haunting You

Your insecurities will continue to lurk in the corner and perpetually paralyze you, until you muster up the courage to face them. And trust me, I get how the very act of doing so is petrifying considering youโ€™ve been told to hide them and run away from them.

Youโ€™ve been raised and socialized to feel insecure about your insecurities. โ €

โ€œ๐™ณ๐š˜๐š—โ€™๐š ๐šข๐š˜๐šž ๐š๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š•๐šŽ๐š ๐šŠ๐š—๐šข๐š˜๐š—๐šŽ ๐šœ๐šŽ๐šŽ ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ๐š– ๐š˜๐š› ๐šŽ๐š•๐šœ๐šŽ ๐šข๐š˜๐šž๐š› ๐š๐šŽ๐šŽ๐š™๐šŽ๐šœ๐š, ๐š๐šŠ๐š›๐š”๐šŽ๐šœ๐š ๐šœ๐šŽ๐šŒ๐š›๐šŽ๐š ๐š ๐š’๐š•๐š• ๐š‹๐šŽ ๐š›๐šŽ๐šŸ๐šŽ๐šŠ๐š•๐šŽ๐š: ๐šŽ๐šŸ๐šŽ๐š›๐šข๐š˜๐š—๐šŽ ๐š ๐š’๐š•๐š• ๐š”๐š—๐š˜๐š  ๐š‘๐š˜๐š  ๐šž๐š—๐š ๐š˜๐š›๐š๐š‘๐šข ๐šข๐š˜๐šž ๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ.โ€

Itโ€™s no wonder you try to conceal them and avoid themโ€”youโ€™re embarrassed to even have them.

But, baby girl, weโ€™ve all got insecurities. To feel insecure is a normal part of the human experience. Itโ€™s not something to suppress, ignore, or feel ashamed about. Itโ€™s something you should take time to understand and unpack.

And I promise, as scary as they seem, their presence exists to serve you, not to terrorize you. Theyโ€™re your compass to guide you; theyโ€™ll take you down a path to a deeper understanding of yourself. Itโ€™ll show you the things you need to work on or work through.

Confront them. Make sense of them. Dismantle them. Allow them to heighten your confidenceโ€”not stomp on it. Got it, love? Use the Lumos spell to light up the dark and face the very thing thatโ€™s been haunting you.

Taking Control of Your Inner Mean Girl

You know the voice in your head who habitually berates you and catalyzes a stream of negative thinking? The voice who feeds you poisonous thoughts, like:

๐šˆ๐š˜๐šžโ€™๐š›๐šŽ ๐š—๐š˜๐š ๐š๐š˜๐š˜๐š ๐šŽ๐š—๐š˜๐šž๐š๐š‘.
๐šˆ๐š˜๐šžโ€™๐š›๐šŽ ๐š—๐š˜๐š ๐šœ๐š–๐šŠ๐š›๐š ๐šŽ๐š—๐š˜๐šž๐š๐š‘.
๐šˆ๐š˜๐šžโ€™๐š›๐šŽ ๐š ๐š˜๐š›๐š๐š‘๐š•๐šŽ๐šœ๐šœ.
๐šˆ๐š˜๐šžโ€™๐š›๐šŽ ๐š—๐š˜๐š ๐š๐šŽ๐šœ๐šŽ๐š›๐šŸ๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š˜๐š ๐š•๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ.
๐™ด๐š . ๐™ธ ๐š‘๐šŠ๐š๐šŽ ๐šข๐š˜๐šž.
๐™ฝ๐š˜๐š‹๐š˜๐š๐šข ๐š•๐š’๐š”๐šŽ๐šœ ๐šข๐š˜๐šž.

Thatโ€™s your inner mean girl. Sheโ€™s hostile and apathetic and controlling. She loves to make you feel small and create upheaval, because thatโ€™s when sheโ€™s most powerful. She doesnโ€™t want to see you happy; she wants to see you sit in misery. And sheโ€™s been pretty successful at putting you in that seat.

All she has to do is get loud enough and fill your head with noise so you become completely incapable of blissful thinking.

Baby girl, itโ€™s time to put her in her seat. I want you to stand up for yourself and tell her to shut the fuck up. You donโ€™t have to listen to her or let her words constrict you. You can stand your ground, instead of allowing her to push you down the cascade of self-sabotaging thoughts.

You are not the things she tells you. Reclaim your power and come back to center. Breathe. You are not your thoughts. You are you. You are life. And you are light.

Anytime she tries to re-enter your life (and she will), tune her out and come back to your breath. Return to the infinite power of the truth and the present moment.

xx

Devi

This Mindset Shift Will Dramatically Improve Your Life

I used to avoid things I sucked at. Writing? Forget about it. Public speaking? Oh hell no. Dancing? Lol.

I had a fixed mindset. In other words, I believed the fallacy that weaknesses couldnโ€™t be modified, altered, or polished. In my mind, it was: these are the things I suck at and these are the things Iโ€™m good at and thatโ€™s the way it is. I just had to accept it and stick to my strengths and dodge all my weaknesses whenever they were presented.

This mindset kept me stagnant and stifled my growth. It limited me. I avoided challenges and stopped pursuing certain aspirations. It wasnโ€™t serving me or my life by any means. Eventually, I decided to shift my way of thinking and adapt the growth mindset.

I went from โ€œ๐‘ฐ ๐’„๐’‚๐’โ€™๐’• ๐’…๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆโ€ ๐’•๐’ โ€œ๐‘ฐ ๐’„๐’‚๐’ ๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’ ๐’‰๐’๐’˜ ๐’•๐’ ๐’…๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ.โ€

This is a powerful place to operate from and will dramatically transform your life, because...

>> You embrace challenges
>> Youโ€™re open to feedback and see criticism as a tool to improve
>> You heighten your confidence
>> You see failure as an opportunity to expand
>> You become multitalented and well-rounded (in my opinion, two very attractive traits ๐Ÿคค).
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As Neil Strauss says, โ€œ๐‘ฐ ๐’‘๐’“๐’†๐’‡๐’†๐’“ ๐’•๐’ ๐’ƒ๐’† ๐’‚ ๐’”๐’•๐’–๐’…๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’๐’‡ ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’†, ๐’๐’๐’• ๐’‚ ๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’‡๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’๐’“.โ€ Growth has become a core value of mine, and Iโ€™m constantly on the prowl to find and master new skills.

So hereโ€™s what I want you to do: think about something you suck at, but wouldnโ€™t mind being good at. Learn it. Study it. And master it.

Be a student of life โšก๏ธ

Letting Go of Self-Limiting Beliefs

You want to start dating again. Or hop on Bumble BFF to foster new friendships, make new connections. Maybe, you want to hit on the good-looking human, sitting at the bar. Or perhaps, you want to start writing. Public speaking. Finally lift weights, not in the private room, but the actual weight room.

But.

Youโ€™re inundated with all these messages you tell yourself, about yourself, preventing you from making those moves. They say something like this:

๐‘ถ๐’‰, ๐’‰๐’๐’๐’†๐’š. ๐‘ต๐’๐’๐’๐’. ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’„๐’‚๐’โ€™๐’• ๐’ˆ๐’ ๐’๐’ ๐’…๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’”. ๐’€๐’๐’–โ€™๐’“๐’† ๐’‘๐’‚๐’Š๐’๐’‡๐’–๐’๐’๐’š ๐’”๐’‰๐’š. ๐‘พ๐’†๐’Š๐’“๐’…. ๐‘จ๐’˜๐’Œ๐’˜๐’‚๐’“๐’… ๐’‚๐’” ๐’‡๐’–๐’„๐’Œ.

๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’„๐’‚๐’โ€™๐’• ๐’•๐’‚๐’๐’Œ ๐’•๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’”๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’• ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’“, ๐’š๐’๐’–โ€™๐’๐’ ๐’ˆ๐’†๐’• ๐’“๐’†๐’‹๐’†๐’„๐’•๐’†๐’…, ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’„๐’‚๐’–๐’”๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’…๐’๐’โ€™๐’• ๐’Œ๐’๐’๐’˜ ๐’‰๐’๐’˜ ๐’•๐’ ๐’„๐’‚๐’“๐’“๐’š ๐’„๐’๐’๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’”๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’. ๐’€๐’๐’–โ€™๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’๐’• ๐’‚ ๐’ˆ๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’• ๐’„๐’๐’๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’”๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’”๐’•.

๐‘พ๐’“๐’Š๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ? ๐‘ญ๐’๐’“๐’ˆ๐’†๐’• ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’• ๐’Š๐’•. ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’…๐’๐’โ€™๐’• ๐’Œ๐’๐’๐’˜ ๐’‰๐’๐’˜ ๐’•๐’ ๐’–๐’”๐’† ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’…๐’” ๐’๐’“ ๐’„๐’“๐’‚๐’‡๐’• ๐’‚ ๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’‘๐’†๐’๐’๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’”๐’•๐’๐’“๐’š. ๐‘ท๐’–๐’ƒ๐’๐’Š๐’„ ๐’”๐’‘๐’†๐’‚๐’Œ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ? ๐’€๐’๐’–โ€™๐’๐’ ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† ๐’‚ ๐’‡๐’๐’๐’ ๐’๐’‡ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡. ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’”๐’•๐’–๐’•๐’•๐’†๐’“ ๐’˜๐’‚๐’š ๐’•๐’๐’ ๐’Ž๐’–๐’„๐’‰.

These are sabotaging and limiting beliefs you tell yourself, and theyโ€™re holding you hostage from experiencing the things you feel called and compelled to do. You continuously water these weeds. You treat them with care, like theyโ€™re roses you want to keep blooming. And you hold them by their stem, irrespective of the thorns piercing you.

Itโ€™s time to pull them out of your garden. To stop watering them and feeding them light. To dig up the root, and plant new.

As Don Miguel Ruiz says, โ€œLife is an illusion created by your own perception and can be changed the minute you choose to change it.โ€ You have the power to choose what you believe and what you donโ€™t believe. You can bring awareness to the limiting beliefs, and rewrite the script into a story that better fits and serves your life.

Profound. I know.

You can let these weeds continue to fester in your garden.

Or.

You can pull them, plant new seeds, and let the beauty flourish.

xx

Devi

What I Learned From an Open Relationship

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆ ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง๐ž๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ˆ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐š ๐ง๐จ๐ง-๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ ๐š๐ฆ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ, ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐š๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ:

If your partner loves someone else, it ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต means they love them, too. If youโ€™re partner finds someone else attractive, it ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต means they find them attractive, too. It doesnโ€™t detract from the love they have for you or the beauty they see in you.

Love is expansive. You can love multiple people.

ALL your insecurities will bubble up to the surface. Youโ€™ll even become aware of insecurities you never knew existed. Being in an open relationship doesnโ€™t mean youโ€™re immune to jealousy or youโ€™re less susceptible to feeling it. It will come up, even when you least expect it. Itโ€™s inevitable.

^^ When insecurities or jealousy arises, itโ€™s important never to judge, but seek to understand. Examine the external situation causing it, and identify the internal emotions triggering it. Dismantling these feelings will allow you to have a greater understanding of yourself.

Being jealous or insecure does not make you a jealous or insecure person. It means youโ€™re a human, having a normal emotional experience.

You must let go of the need to control the outcome and accept all possibilities.

Itโ€™s work. A tremendous amount of work. Itโ€™s easy to get lost in the glamor of it allโ€”the sex, the multiple connections, the novelty you can frequently experience. But let me assure you, shit ainโ€™t easy. Itโ€™s a lot to manage, and requires so much bandwidth.

It will lovingly force you to dive a little deeper into cultivating more self assurance, more self awareness, and more self confidence. It will demand you to vocalize your needs, have difficult conversations, declare boundaries, and effectively communicate. Itโ€™ll remind you to stop trivializing your feelings in order to please someone else, because the way you feel is just as important. It will ask you to neglect beliefs no longer serving you or your partners.

Ultimately, for me, this relationship paved my path to a road full of self discovery and growth. And Iโ€™m utterly grateful for the valuable and crucial lessons this set up brought me.

Devi

The Power of Masturbation

Are you touching yourself? Like all up on (and in) yourself? Because you should be.

Itโ€™s truly irksome and utterly bewildering that masturbation is for whatever reason still considered taboo. That sex with someone else is more normal than sex with yourself. Sex is such is a powerful and beautiful way to foster a deeper, more intimate connection with someone. Including with yourself. Thee most important connection of all.

Like, hello, self fucking love.

But hereโ€™s something else to ponder: if you donโ€™t feel comfortable touching your own body, how are you supposed to feel comfortable with someone else touching it?

As Iโ€™ve discussed many times before, in order to feel confident in a space with someone else, it starts with you. YOU have to feel comfortable with you. If youโ€™re eager to experience more confidence, more pleasure, more arousal in the bedroomโ€”masturbation will help you actualize your desire.

Self-exploration is one of the fastest ways to discover what makes you tick. And when spend time getting to know your body, you can then replicate and communicate it with someone else. You can teach them what turns you on, which makes it easier for them to please you, allowing for more orgasmic sex (YAY!! ๐Ÿคค). And I mean, whatโ€™s more attractive than communication?

So, feel yourselfโ€”every part of yourself. Playing with yourself is a glorious thing.

Whose going to masturbate today?

Happy Orgasms,

Devi


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Have a Better Day Instantly with this Mindset Shift

This morning I woke up late, stubbed my toe, and spilled coffee all over my white shirt within an hour upon waking. I used to let this small cascade of unfortunate events set the tone of my entire day, which typically was, โ€œitโ€™s a really bad day.โ€

From there, I was operating from a negative head space. And when youโ€™re in that space, anything undesirable that happensโ€”youโ€™re going to look at it and say, โ€œOf course this happened, because itโ€™s a bad day!โ€ When you say itโ€™s a bad day and youโ€™re committed to staying thereโ€”you are (sometimes unconsciously) actively looking for things to confirm the narrative as true.

Hereโ€™s something I want you to consider, and then internalize:

You have a choice.

You get to decide if itโ€™s a bad day or if itโ€™s a good day. You have complete power of how you respond to any situation, at any given moment. So while you arenโ€™t in control of what happens to youโ€”you are in control of how you respond, react, and feel about it.

No one, and no situation can make you react or feel a certain wayโ€”youโ€™re in charge of how you choose to respond and feel (๐Ÿคฏ).

Trust me. I get why this is a hard reality to accept, because now the fingers always point back at you. Youโ€™re taking radical responsibility for your actions and feelings, which means you have no one else to blame but yourself.

But, when you realize youโ€™re granted with a choice, itโ€˜s a powerful gift that can dramatically alter the trajectory of your life.

The next time something undesirable happens, try this: Separate yourself from the situation. And then let go of what you canโ€™t control and accept what you canโ€”how you respond.

You can choose to play victim OR you can choose to say, โ€œit is what it isโ€ and accept the circumstances without it ruining your entire day.

I choose the latter, how about you?

xx

Devi

The Truth About Confidence

Letโ€™s dispel the myth thatโ€™s floating around about confidence ๐Ÿง™โ€โ™€๏ธ

Society has conditioned us to believe confidence comes externally. That itโ€™s defined by our successes, the money in our bank accounts, our appearance, and how popular we are.

Regina George is a perfect example of why this is morbidly untrue. She portrays the perceived image of perfection: dresses to the nines, hair is well-groomed, makeup is flawless, comes from a wealthy family, everyone likes her, wants to be her.

BUT.

Itโ€™s all a facadeโ€”an illusion covering up whatโ€™s really bubbling below the surface. We all know sheโ€™s struggling internally; she constantly needs validation from others and she feels like she has to be perfect to be worthy...to be enough.

So while she has the money, the looks, the popularity...all the things that supposedly are believed to give you confidenceโ€”we see throughout the movie, sheโ€™s crumbling from within. The minute she doesnโ€™t have validation or falls short from perfection, confidence is stripped right away from her.

This is the reason we have such a difficult time actualizing confidence. Weโ€™re chasing after all these external things and complying to the fallacy that in order to feel confident, you have to be perfect and look perfect.

Heed my words, darlings, because Iโ€™m about to reveal veracities that could dramatically shift your life:

  • Confidence isnโ€™t created externally, itโ€™s created internally.

  • Confidence isnโ€™t about being perfect, itโ€™s accepting youโ€™re imperfect and making friends with those imperfections.

Confidence is kinda about...being comfortable with how wonderful youโ€™re not (๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ). Itโ€™s being okay with knowing youโ€™re wrong sometimes. That youโ€™re flawed. Awkward. Strange. Weird.

We think confident people canโ€™t be insecure, painfully shy, or anxious. They canโ€™t stutter, choke up, or say stupid shit. They canโ€™t have cellulite or stretch marks or excess fat. In reality, confident people are okay with being all of that.

Sheer confidence is about how YOU feel about yourself internally and independently of anyone else. Itโ€™s owning the fuck out of who you are, including the things that make you a fucking human (๐ŸŽค๐Ÿคฏ).

xx

Devi

Is Your Diet Holding You Hostage from Living Your Life?

I used to follow diets that mapped out what I could and couldnโ€™t eat, which essentially mapped out what I could and couldnโ€™t do.

No alcohol meant no spontaneous trips to the winery. No flirtatious banter with a bumble date while eating an ice cream cone (because, duh, just trying to live The Notebook). And definitely no buying a round of tequila shots while dancing the night away with my best friends.

I was living my life in the confines of a diet and to be quite honest, I was fucking miserable. And at what cost? Sure, being punctilious with my nutrition allowed me to lose weight faster and kept my body fat percentage lower.

But this obsessive behavior around food and my body was taking control. The extent of my socialization was at the gym, and my friends stopped asking me to hangout because my answer was almost always, โ€œI canโ€™t tonight.โ€

This way of living was causing serious destruction, which eventually lead me to an important question. A question that essentially altered (and drastically improved) my life: Was being leaner ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ more important than spending quality time with my friends and living my god damn life?

The answer was a resounding NO.

I decided to redefine what held significance in my life, and my happiness was theee most significant. Feeling good in my body makes me happy, and so does building profound connections with people I love over food and cocktails and meaningful conversation.

Being lean really didnโ€™t mean anything to me. It was just something I was conditioned to believe would make me happy, and yet it didnโ€™t.

Now my life is a mix of eating nutrient dense foods and drinking margaritas with extra salt around the rim. Itโ€™s a mix of taking vitamins and taking shots. Itโ€™s a mix of honoring my body, while also honoring my happiness.

Nourishing your body is vital, so is nourishing your happiness. Neglecting one or the other hosts several problems, which is why both extremes just donโ€™t work. There has to be a middle ground. There has to be balance.

So, if youโ€™re ready to finally follow a program that teaches you how to have bothโ€”click HERE and letโ€™s work together. Iโ€™ll teach you how, baby girl ๐Ÿ’“ your health and happiness is important to me.

xx

Devi