Five Ways to Improve Your Masturbation Game

Happy National Mastฯ…rbation Month! ๐Ÿ’ฆ Here are five tips to up your mastฯ…rbation game:

>> ๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ: pleasure doesnโ€™t exist with pressure. Many of us put tooo much focus on reaching the ever-so-famous-orgฮฑsm, which can often deter us from even reaching it. If you donโ€™t experience an orgฮฑsm, itโ€™s cool, itโ€™s fine, and it isnโ€™t a failed experience.

Letโ€™s reframe that way of thinking, because pleasure feels good, regardless. And when we heavily focus on this destination point, it detracts from the enjoyment of the journey.

>> ๐†๐ž๐ญ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ: focus on your senses, your breath, and how the pleasure makes you feelโ€”not how you look, if itโ€™s weird (itโ€™s not), or the tasks you have to do tomorrow.

Be present. Whenever your mind races else where, come back to your breath.

>> ๐‹๐ž๐ญ ๐ ๐จ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐จ ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง: thereโ€™s no โ€œright wayโ€ to mastฯ…rbate. Every women touches herself differently and requires different things. To discover what feels best for you, itโ€™ll take exploration and trail & error.

Sex with Emily stated it perfectly, your vฯ…lva is like an Rubikโ€™s cube. It takes time to figure out.

>> ๐„๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ: donโ€™t just touch your vฯ…lva, touch all of you. Seduce yourself, and touch yourself the way youโ€™d want a partner to touch you.

>> ๐”๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ๐ฒ๐ฌ: you donโ€™t ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ toys, but it does enhance your experience. My favorite toy company is Lelo.


Takeaway: explore, experiment, and most importantly, have fun ๐Ÿคช

Your favorite slut,

Devi