"Turn The Lights Off, Please"
“Can we turn the lights off?” A request made when you’re about to have sex because stripping down, exposing every inch of your flesh won’t happen unless you’re in the dark.
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You want to hide everything “wrong” about your body, because it’s a “turn off.”
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But even in the dark, you still feel uncomfortable.
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Turning off the lights didn’t turn off your insecurities. It didn’t grant you with a pleasurable experience—it just made getting naked a tiny bit easier.
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Your insecurities are still present, worries are still existent, and confidence is still absent. Because, well, your body isn’t actually the problem.
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The barrier here is all the inaccurate ideas and narratives you’ve accumulated through the media and pοrn about how your body and sex should look.
Your vulva needs to look like this.
You need to manipulate your body to look a certain way to be desired.
An οrgasm shouldn’t take too long; it should be easy.
If you’re having sex with a man, it’s all about him.
Sex is hot and steamy at all times. That it should look exactly the way it’s presented in pοrn and movies.
It’s nearly impossible to fully enjoy sex when you hold these beliefs. When you think something is inherently wrong with you. When you’re constantly performing, making sure you don’t make the wrong move or say the wrong thing.
And it’s time to put it to an end so you can finally have the sex you’ve been craving.
Are you ready?
Join me in the new course Sex With The Lights ON. An entire course designed to teach you how to feel comfortable in your body and in the bedroom.
YOU’LL LEARN HOW TO...
👏 Overcome deeply rooted body image insecurities
♥️ Feel accepting of your body
🤯 Get out of your head
🙅♀️ Not fear judgement or take things personally
🤤 Enhance your experience in the bedroom
🗣 Vocalize your needs, desires, and boundaries with ease
💥 Communicate effectively about your sexual health, and even understand it to begin with
...and so much more.
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Are ready to have sex with the lights ON, uninhibited and fully expressed?
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Head to the link HERE to enroll and take 50% off using code: EARLYBIRDSALE
See you inside the course!
xx
Devi